Selena Gomez’s love story: Exploring her engagement and famous exes

Benny Blanco put a ring on it!
Selena Gomez just dropped exciting news on her fans: she’s engaged! She’s getting hitched to Benny Blanco, the producer and songwriter responsible for some of the tracks you’ve likely grooved to. Selena announced it on Instagram, sharing a pic of her ring and the caption: “Forever begins now.”
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The proposal itself wasn’t extravagant, which fits Selena perfectly. The couple celebrated with a laid-back picnic featuring Taco Bell, one of her go-to treats. Sitting on a blanket among snacks, Selena kept it low-key in a fur coat and jeans. Fans got a sneak peek of the day through a series of photos, including a sweet one of the happy couple sharing a laugh.
Benny, who’s made a name for himself working with big stars like Justin Bieber and Rihanna, left an adorable comment on her post: “Hey wait… that’s my wife.” Even Taylor Swift jumped in with a fun offer to be the flower girl. The announcement sparked a flurry of congrats from celebs like Cardi B, Gwyneth Paltrow, and Lil Nas X.
Selena and Benny: A Love Story That Blossomed Over Time
Selena and Benny’s love story didn’t happen overnight. The two initially met as collaborators, joining forces in 2019 for the song “I Can’t Get Enough.” Though their working relationship remained strictly professional for a long time, things began to heat up in 2023. By June of that year, rumors about a romance between them started swirling, and in December, Selena confirmed on Instagram that they’ve been dating for six months.
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Since then, Selena and Benny have been refreshingly open about their relationship. Whether it was Benny gushing about Selena during his interview on The Drew Barrymore Show, or Selena posting a heartfelt birthday tribute calling him her source of joy, it was clear these two were building something special. Benny even told Howard Stern earlier this year that he could see himself marrying Selena—looks like he wasn’t just saying that!
What makes their relationship stand out is how genuine it feels. They’re not about flashy displays or constant public presence. Instead, they enjoy the little things, like grabbing Taco Bell for a laid-back picnic or supporting each other’s projects when nobody’s watching. Selena has mentioned Benny’s knack for blocking out the noise and negativity that can sometimes creep into her life, and it’s obvious she cherishes his constant support.
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Who are Selena Gomez’s ex boyfriends?
1. Nick Jonas (2008)
Selena’s first high-profile relationship was with Nick Jonas back in their Disney Channel days. She later called their connection “puppy love” – sweet and innocent but not meant to last. Their relationship even sparked the Jonas Brothers’ music video for “Burnin’ Up.”
2. Taylor Lautner (2009)
Selena and the Twilight star had a short-lived romance after meeting in Vancouver. They connected over their shared challenges with the paparazzi, but the relationship quickly fizzled out. Selena later confessed that the media attention made it tough to keep a connection going.
3. Justin Bieber (2011–2018)
Selena’s time with Justin Bieber was her most high-profile—and rocky—relationship. They dated on and off for years, and every breakup and reunion was big news. Her album “Rare” features personal songs stemming from their final breakup, such as “Lose You to Love Me.” Despite their undeniable chemistry, they called it quits for good in 2018 when Justin married Hailey Baldwin.
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4. Orlando Bloom (2014, Rumored)
Selena and actor Orlando Bloom stirred up dating rumors when they were seen together in Los Angeles and Las Vegas. But at that time, Bloom’s girlfriend Katy Perry dismissed the rumors as unfounded, and Selena retweeted her response, shutting down the chatter.
5. Zedd (2015)
Selena’s brief but memorable romance with DJ and producer Zedd caught attention. They worked together on ‘I Want You to Know’ and shared a short-lived relationship. Zedd later admitted that dating Selena brought media attention he wasn’t ready for.
6. Niall Horan (2015, Rumored)
Selena and Niall Horan from One Direction were seen together a few times, fueling rumors about them dating. They reportedly shared a kiss at Jenna Dewan’s birthday bash, but it didn’t turn into anything serious.
7. Samuel Krost (2015–2016)
Selena had a short-lived relationship with Samuel Krost, who’s friends with Gigi Hadid. Though they weren’t together for long, Samuel took to Instagram to share some kind words about Selena, highlighting her kindness and authenticity.
8. Charlie Puth (2016)
Selena and Charlie Puth worked together on ‘We Don’t Talk Anymore,’ sparking rumors about a romance behind the scenes. Charlie later described their connection as “short-lived but impactful,” admitting he knew it wouldn’t last.
9. The Weeknd (2017)
Selena and The Weeknd dated for nearly a year, and their relationship seemed serious. The couple attended the Met Gala together and even shared photos from their vacations. However, their busy schedules ultimately led to a breakup. Despite this, they’ve stayed on good terms.
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10. Drew Taggart (2023)
In early 2023, Selena was rumored to be dating Drew Taggart from The Chainsmokers. They were seen going bowling and hanging out casually, but their relationship didn’t turn into anything serious.
11. Zayn Malik (2023, Rumored)
Selena and former One Direction member Zayn Malik sparked rumors after they were seen together in New York City. Sources claimed they shared a kiss, but their relationship didn’t seem to progress beyond casual dates.
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